Is your partner cheating on you? Here are 7 signs you can look out for

Do you feel your partner is cheating on you? Here are the signs you need to look out for

One in every four couples cheats on each other. Well, I hope that is not the case with us. However, we can never be too sure. We always tend to give our partners the benefit of the doubt even when we should not. However, we do know if something has started going wrong. We do feel it. Here are a few signs to look out for if you feel your partner is cheating on you.

He suddenly becomes conscious of his looks: So, the person who forgets to shower regularly suddenly starts decking up. From the perfect t-shirts to using his best perfumes without any special events, something does smelly fishy here. 

The phone becomes a prized possession: Does he get uncomfortable texting if you are beside him? Does he frequently receive calls and, if questioned, justify it as client calls? Does he clean the browser every time he uses the laptop? Does it throw him off if you accidentally receive his calls? Girl, if it a yes, you really need to watch it!

His phone periodically becomes unreachable: So, earlier, he was always available, and now you find his phone either switched off or not reachable for long durations. He always comes up with an excuse that he was in a meeting or forgot to charge his phone. This behaviour change could definitely mean something else.

Your partner’s behaviour has suddenly gotten worse: Is he shouting at you for petty mistakes? Is he working too late to often to “avoid conflicts” at home? Is he always blaming you for everything that is going wrong? Well it may be his way of hiding his guilt of cheating on you. 

No Physical Intimacy in your Relationship: Earlier, it was making love with lots of snuggling, kissing, canoodling and now does it feel like just an act? Is your physical intimacy too few and far between, and this change is sudden? This could definitely be a sign that your partner’s physical desires are getting satisfied somewhere else.

The Earlier Friendship is Gone: He no longer confides in you. There are no deep conversations, you guys don’t connect with each other. You guys no longer share your days with each other. Your dinners are quiet, and he tries to avoid intimate discussions. If the relationship is suddenly not the same, your partner might have other interests.

He Avoids the Topic of Cheating: If you talk to him and ask if he is cheating, he will either avoid or completely change the topic. He might also start shouting at you for thinking this instead of explaining or clearing your doubts. Remember, trust your gut. If you feel he is cheating, he probably is.