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Why women don’t like to hear these three words

  • Getting to confess your love to someone is a huge task
  • Guys are often known to blow the chance to get the woman of their dreams because of these three words
  • If you are going to tell a woman of your feelings for her, guys, never say this (Hint: it begins with I)
Why women dont like to hear these three words
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First Published Jul 24, 2017, 5:50 PM IST

Men often complain that getting to know what makes a woman tick is next to impossible. In fact, some have even said that you never know what can make a woman mad at you. Often you have boys asking ‘What do women want?’. Well, we tell you what they definitely don’t want to hear.

Three words. These three words can make or break your relationship, pitch you into friendzone for the rest of your life or even earn you a royal boycott from your love interest.

You say the words ‘I like you’ to a girl and if you are expecting a blooming kiss or a confession of her love, then chances are you are in the queue buddy. You have chosen the wrong three words.  And when anyone says ‘like’, they mean that they are just appreciative of you as a person or are fond of your company as a friend and are not thinking of you in terms of romance or relationship.  

See, three words that can make or break or your proposal.

Replace that with the words ‘I Love You’ and see the reaction, it will may be an outright No and if you are lucky and she reciprocates your feelings, chances are she will say ‘I love you too’.

Never, never confuse the two words – Like and Love. You may ask what’s the big deal? Can’t be they understood to convey the same emotion? The answer is NO.

Want to know why?

Listen up fellas, here’s a lesson in English and love. When you say the word –Like it means something casual, unimportant and unattached. You like playing games, you like you new motorcycle, you like sleeping all day, you like dreaming about her. It conveys the message to the girl that you are not serious about her. Today you like chips, tomorrow you make like burgers…see how temporary and passing it is. ‘Like’ is temporary while when you profess your love to someone, it symbolises an eternity.

When you like someone you are merely acknowledging that person, you may like a person’s characteristics, their physical appearance, their habits but that’s not love. Like sends the message that today, this boy is into you, tomorrow he may like someone else, so why would any girl sign up for this?

Women want someone who can be there with them as a partner forever and not some temporary fling in the haystack.

And before I end, here’s a free tip: How to know whether your relationship is needs to go the ‘love’ way? According to a study, if you have had a crush on someone and cannot get over it for more than four months at the maximum, chances are you are already in love!.

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