- 4 red flags to watch out for if you are in a relationship
The first flush of a relationship can be incredibly overwhelming, and the world is viewed through rose-tinted glasses.
And, thus, it sometimes hard to see the signs when they are right under your very nose; so, here’s what you need to watch out for.
He / she never introduces you to their friends:
When you meet someone, when they make excuses or never makes an effort to introduce to their friends, rest-assured something is not right.
He / she wants to know your whereabouts:
At first, it might come across as sweet and caring, but even after you’ve told him / her about your day’s plan, they still call up to find out where and with whom you’re with, then start paying close attention.
Blows up over the smallest thing:
Does he / she blow up over the smallest thing? And then goes on to blame you conveniently. This sort of bullying behaviour might catch you off-guard initially, and you might even blame yourself and offer up an apology. However, this is a sign of things to come, and you need to adequately learn how to fight back.
Crazy, psycho ex-es:
Ask them about the ex-es, and they immediately label them as ‘crazy’ ‘psycho’ etc. And we’re not referring to just one in particular. If he / she constantly refers to all of them, you might have to reassess who the crazy one is.
Last Updated 31, Mar 2018, 6:48 PM IST