Comparison!
If you are a parent who does not compare your child with other children in terms of grades, appearance, skills, etc., then you have definitely chosen the right path. Children's development is unique. They should not be compared with others to grow up to be good people.
Being Loved:
Being too strict with children is not the right approach. You will definitely act as a parent's duty after a small mistake. After that, if the child comes to you and sits next to you and tries to talk, don't stop them, talk to them. This is a way to develop a child's self-esteem.