Here's how you can spot fake person or profile on matrimonial websites

First Published May 30, 2021, 1:12 PM IST

Having troubles finding a partner online? Here are some tips to make your search easier!
 

When you log on to a matrimonial website, you are flooded with profiles. Scouting through them can be quite stressful and often highly confusing.
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Added to that, the daily newspaper reports of fraudsters doesn’t exactly make the process any easier. These are a few tips that you can keep in your mind while hunting for your matching online:
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Find the correct site:A no brainer, right? But, despite there being a lot of online matrimonial sites and many of them are free, it’s important to evaluate your time, budget and personal requirements before signing up on any website. It is always wise and practical to choose a website that provides personal assistance to their clients to save up on time, efforts and probable agony. Check out the reviews as well as user testimonials to narrow down on a website.
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Go through the online profiles with a pinch of salt: Make sure to ask for all the social media links of a potential suitor and go through them thoroughly. In case of any discrepancy, ask the person directly. If they avoid answering or make invalid excuses, block them immediately and move ahead. Matrimonial websites are often misused by unsavoury elements looking to dupe people, so beware. This is also why you should do thorough research about the website you sign up for
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Use your stalking skills:Remember the last time you looked up the entire bio data of the person your best friend was dating? Could you do it again, now for yourself? Make sure you investigate thoroughly about your prospective match. Lookup for his profile on other websites like Facebook, Instagram and most definitely LinkedIn. Make sure you check his connections. That will give you’re a fairer idea of his identity.
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Do not rush to conclusions:Take your time to judge a person. Don’t just get floored by a perfect profile who has a decent pay package or is from a reputed institution. A good well-crafted profile can also be a bait for the innocent. So, take your time and slowly venture forth.
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Don’t fall too easily:I know we can’t control our emotions, but this is for your own safety. Don’t fall head over heels over a person easily. Take your time, do your checks, don’t just get floored by someone’s sweet words or charming attitude. Make sure the person is worth your emotions before investing.
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Think before you Chat:Whenever you connect with someone, be the listener first. Notice their pattern, their choice of words. See if you find any discrepancies with their profiles. This will help you find your soulmate better.
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Take your time: Before you rush to conclusions, take your time. Scout through multiple profiles. Whenever you talk to someone, make sure you discuss everything before you take the plunge. Remember, this alliance might be for a lifetime. So, take your time.
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Searching for your partner online might be a difficult task. But don’t you dare get intimated. Follow these tips and you may find your partner soon!
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