Negative and demeaning statements can seriously damage a child's self-esteem. Avoid making derogatory comments about their intelligence, abilities, or worth.
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'I wish you were more like [Someone Else]'
Comparing a child to their siblings or other children can foster feelings of inadequacy and jealousy. It's important to celebrate each child's uniqueness.
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'We can't afford that'
While it's essential to teach financial responsibility, telling a child that you can't afford something they desire without further context may create fear or anxiety about money.
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'You are such a disappointment'
Expressing disappointment in your child can lead to feelings of shame and guilt. Instead, encourage positive behavior and offer constructive criticism when necessary.
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'You are the reason for our problems'
Blaming a child for family issues or conflicts can be emotionally damaging. Children should not be burdened with adult problems or made to feel responsible for them.
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'I don't love you'
Never use love as a bargaining tool or threat. Children need to feel loved unconditionally and assured that their love is unwavering.