4 ways to get out of the friendzone

Are you trapped in the friend zone? Here are four ways to get out of it.

As the popular saying goes: “The difference between ‘girlfriend’ and ‘girl friend’ is that little space in between, we call the friend zone.”

It’s not a pleasant place to be, and while it could signal the end of the world, it doesn’t have to be the case.

Here are four ways to get out of the dreaded friend zone.

1. Get a third-party perspective:   

Ask trusted friends what they think of it. Sometimes, we’re clouded by emotions that you don’t actually see things for what it is. Invite your crush for outings with your friends. Ask them for their sincere opinion, and ask questions about what they think of you being a couple, or if there is a potential between the both of you and so on.

2. Change your behaviour:

Women are far less shallower than men. So, perhaps one of the reasons that you are in the zone, is because of your behaviour that is probably turned her off.  However, you can turn this around with your behaviour and actions, and you can redeem yourself out of this friend zone.

3. Step away:  

Sometimes, the best way to get clarity from a situation is to step away. While it sounds like your nails being pulled out, it will be the best thing for both parties involved. In doing so, this will show your crush that you can’t be taken for granted.

4. It’s the presentation:

Make yourself look attractive in her eyes. Start making small changes, from dressing nattily, change your hairstyle and so on and so forth.  Coupled with your behaviour and attitude, it all points to a winning combination.