So you've married your life's love. You've not only taken on a spouse but their entire family as well. Here are five simple techniques to make your in-laws fall head over heels for you.
Giving respect to your spouse
According to a study, demonstrating compatibility with your spouse can assist convince both your mother-in-law and father-in-law that you are the ideal person for their kid. Prove that you and your partner are a good match, and you could get your in-laws on your side.
Taking criticism positively
Nobody in the family is flawless. Consider any connection you have—with your mother or father, for example—and you must acknowledge that there is both excellent and terrible in it. They may encourage and assist you at times, yet they may also criticise. Your connection with your in-laws is no different; the only distinction is how you absorb their behaviour.
Show interest in in-laws hobbies
Look for an activity that you can do with your in-laws, such as gardening or jogging, and give it your all. Who can say? You could join up for a 5K together. Congratulations, if you learn something entirely new, enjoy it, and can thank your in-laws for it.
According to University of Pittsburgh research, the "exposure effect," or being around someone, significantly impacts social relationships. Instead of avoiding your partner's parents, actively arrange plans with them.
Complimenting your in-laws
Complimenting your in-laws has the potential to influence their perception of you. Telling your spouse's parents that you consider them family may lead to them feeling the same way about you. Never underestimate the power of a genuine compliment.
Voice your opinion
Of course, you want to be liked, but it doesn't mean your beliefs have to suffer. It's perfectly fine to hold opposing views as long as you don't get too worked up trying to persuade everyone that your way of thinking is correct and theirs is incorrect. Your in-laws will most likely recognise your dedication to things that are important to you.